February 24, 2018

Come Across As Assured, Resourceful, At Ease With Yourself

With the Relationship Mastery Program  – Volume 1: “Attention to others”

Audio programAs you enter the room, everyone present senses you can handle yourself. It seems everything in your life is ordered and you can devote your full attention to other people. They like the idea of getting to know you and perhaps doing business with you…

Coming across as assured is just one of the benefits of becoming a master of the behavior I call “Attention to others”. Some of the other upsides are being a great listener, getting other people on your side, feeling in control, getting to know people quickly, and having a calming influence. Without this skill, you’re liable to fail to listen properly, come across as needy or arrogant or both, talk down to people, be seen as having a big ego, and be ignored.

Attending to others sounds like a simple concept, but really doing it well takes a bit of effort, mindfulness, and skill. Many people say they struggle to do this reliably. Not many are good at it, but you can be one of the few. There is an approach that works and helps you be consistent and that’s what you’ll discover in this program for the very affordable investment of only $14.95 (approximately £9.95).

“The rare individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage. He has little competition.” Dale Carnegie


Program outcomes

A man and a woman entering a public spaceAfter working with this program, you will:

  • Be a good listener
  • Focus on other people
  • Seem interested and attentive
  • Feel in control
  • Seem assured, resourceful, and at ease with yourself
  • Get to know people quickly
  • Create the opportunity to establish rapport
  • Find common ground
  • Show respect
  • Have a calming influence
  • Find that other people tell you everything you need to know
  • Achieve win-win outcomes
  • Have a common touch

What you get in the package

In this program, which is closely based on my books with the significant additional benefit of the spoken word and all the extra nuance that entails, I convey information and ideas normally only available to consultancy and coaching clients paying substantial sums in the $k or £k range. This audio download is an exceptionally convenient and cost-effective way to access the same learning for only $14.95 (approximately £9.95). In the package you get:

  • A 58 minute audio recording as a set of MP3 files you can listen to virtually anywhere – at your desk, in your car, on a portable MP3 player, on an iPhone, on an iPad and more – in which I convey the essentials of the subject in an in-depth, compact and structured manner, all designed to provide you with practical, actionable information quickly.
  • A PDF with simple instructions to access the audio recording and any illustrations required to support the material.


In the unlikely event you find this program is not for you, just get in touch for a full refund. I’ll even spend some time on the phone or on Skype or on email helping you in whatever way I can to compensate you for your inconvenience.

“It’s important for others to understand, one of the reasons this has worked so well is that you listen, understand the problem and help us do our work.” Commodore Chris Hockley RN, Commander Naval Base Clyde


Or, if you prefer, take the whole set for $97 (approximately £64.95), a saving of 46%.


Please note:
This audio program is intended to provide accurate and authoritative information on the subject matter covered. It is offered with the understanding that neither the publisher nor the author is engaged in rendering professional services with the publication of this program. If professional advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of a competent professional should be sought.

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